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Build the security that keeps you calm during conflict and creates lasting love.
Take the assessment that's helped over 350 professionals develop unshakeable confidence in their relationships.
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This is for you if:
You're in a long-term committed relationship and you are ready to become the secure influence.
Trust was broken in your relationship & you want to rebuild it by becoming Secure.
You've invested in therapy and your own personal development.
You have incredible self-awareness and you're ready to embody what you already know.
3 Steps to Developing Security
If nothing else has worked for you, this is where things start to shift
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What happens: You finally resolve the "Am I in the right relationship?" question that's been eating at you.
You've been asking the wrong question. The answer isn't about them it's about becoming aligned with yourself first. -
What happens: You learn that the safest way to trust your partner is by becoming secure enough to handle whatever happens
The transformation: Your dream relationship becomes your normal relationship because secure people don't live in constant fear of betrayal or loss. -
What happens: You develop the inner foundation that feeds you security for the rest of your life, regardless of what your partner does
The result: You become the influence who creates safety in any relationship you choose to be in.
How we Build Security Together
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Weekly Course Modules
Weekly Course Modules that guide you through the “3 Steps to Security”. Mikah will assign these modules to you every session that support the stage you’re in
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Weekly Integration Calls
Every week, Mikah leads a focused integration session centered on one of the Steps to Security. Each call begins with an introduction to the topic, the tool we’re working with, and an interactive exercise to help you begin practicing secure mindsets, communication frameworks, and embodiment in real time with your fellow cohort members. We close with reflection questions and simple integration homework to continue growing in your relationship.
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1:1 Office Hours w/Mikah
In the Group you are a student, in our 1:1s your the creator, and receive nuanced support on your relationship situation; to better apply the tools to your life!
(Available weekly every Monday & Friday)
“The Security you embody becomes the love you create”
- Mikah
Meet Mikah
Attachment Theory • IFS • Somatic EXP . Trauma-Informed • Parts Work +
Here is my story that led to over 350 transformations:
My work didn’t begin because I mastered relationships early. It began because I didn’t.
I fell in love with someone who triggered everything within me—anxious, avoidant, shut down, activated. And despite having done over a decade of personal growth, I found myself asking the question “Am I in the right relationship?” more times in three months than I had in my entire life.
What followed was a year and a half of repair after a major rupture of trust on both sides. That season forced me to take deeper ownership than I ever had before—not just of my behaviors or my patterns, but of how I was actively ruining my own relationship. My nervous system. My reactions. The subtle ways I escalated, collapsed, or abandoned myself without realizing it.
Through that process, I became the secure person in the relationship. The one who wasn’t spiraling, performing, or self-erasing anymore. I became unshakable. Warm. Steady. Calm. Peaceful.
For the past three years, security has been my normal.
The relationship I once dreamed of is now my new normal. Relationships no longer feel like an endless game of traumas, triggers, and self-awareness loops. They feel like a playground for accountability, service, and deep connection. Every cell in my body knows what security feels like—not as a concept, but as a lived state.
There is a simple formula to becoming secure.
And the ingredients for it already live inside of you.
Let’s spend the next three months awakening that security within you—for this relationship, and for the rest of your life.
YOUR NEW REALITY WITH SECURITY
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You Stop Being the Anxious One.
Your partner comes to YOU when they're stressed because you've become the calm, grounded presence in the relationship -
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Difficult Conversations Don't Derail You
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You Trust Yourself to Handle Whatever Comes
Whether it's relationship challenges, life stress, or unexpected situations. You know you can navigate it from a secure place
Testimonials
Real words from clients just like you :)
What we help you build in 90 days lasts a lifetime.
Meet Candice
Candice came here wanting to work on her relationship of 6 years, at the end of our working together, this is what she said…play the audio below :)
1 year later…
You're One Assessment Away From Security That Lasts a Lifetime
(Readiness Indicator of Secure Attachment)
The RISA assessment reveals whether you're ready to develop secure attachment that helps you build the relationship of your dreams.
5 Minutes for a lifetime.
(We only accept 15 people per month)
FAQ
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I’ve had the amazing opportunity to work with 200+ clients create/make beautiful irreversible changes in their relationships in life! There are three traits that set these people apart:
A sincere dedication to take accountability for the life you created
A sincere desire to take action & be of service to the life you want to create in your relationships
A sincere dedication to your internal experience & that being your responsibility
if you hold yourself accountable to embodying these traits, there’s no reason why you can’t create big bold change.
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Most shocking about my work with Mikah was how incredibly easy it was to develop a connection. Nothing was ever awkward or stagnant, and we spent as much time laughing and genuinely sharing in the joys of life as we did rolling up our sleeves and tackling some challenges.
~ Shareese
Mikah’s approach doesn’t feel overwhelming; he actually breaks everything down into simple workable steps and it’s amazing how little shifts can make such a difference…sometimes when I thought I needed a 1:1 session I just needed message support in between our sessions
~ Malcolm
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Information is 100% free and out there! Our work together isn’t about filling your head with more information but giving your frameworks and homework to apply that information into a transformation! A beautiful life & relationship is created by what you integrate not what you're aware of 🫧☁️🍯
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This is a valid concern to have seeing that the nature of our work is all online. All of calls are just between us, with an additional option to record them if requested by you. I will never refer to our work with other clients as it’s confidential and if I am inspired by a concept brought up in our sessions I’ll never name-drop you, it will always be a general statement about the lesson.